August 31, 2010 @ 12:59 pm

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Okay, so clearly I have been off my blog game for a minute. To be honest, I am just really effing tired. I work full time, go out 6/7 nights a week, and am having a hard time dealing with life.
Not gonna lie, I have been going through some shit and really questioning what to do with my life. I’ve had a billion weddings this summer (and I don’t even have a steady hook up these days), the Hamptons kinda suck (Except Day & Nite which is aweeesomeee), and I haven’t gone anywhere besides New Hampshire and Miami this whole summer. Blah – WTF did I do for the past three months, cause I know I wasnt being productive.
BUT I’m not giving up. The show will go on and The Downtown Diaries will live on to see another year. I hired an AMAZING developer to finish up my site. Thanks Kenroy! It only took me a year and a half and FIVE WEB DEVELOPERS LATER to get my site finished. Which is funny considering I knew Kenroy since the blog first launched. Lessons learned… lessons learned…
I recently was named Broke Ass of the Week by my buddy Broke Ass Stuart. As some of you know, I am the Queen Broke Ass when it comes to Stu’s parties. Every time Stu throws a party in the NY, I am the woman behind the scenes.
AND best of all, I really explain whats been going down in my life in this candid interview with Esther Brown from Outside.in for their ‘Bloggers We Love’ Interview Series.
The article was so amazing I C&P the whole thing for your reading pleasure.
A Blogger’s Dilemma: Been There, Done That… Now What?
New York City is OVER.
Dead.
Finito.
At least, that’s what NYC nightlife blogger Kristina Marino tells me. She doesn’t get the obsession with the Hamptons, either, (“You’re like: ‘this isn’t cool. Why would I drive 3 hours just to go to the same clubs they have in the city?’”), and it’s not like you can go to Goldbar, Kenmare, The Jane, or Le Bain every night. At least… not once you’ve landed a full-time job that you value and enjoy. Plus, maybe you’d like to find the time to learn a language or two. Not to mention that you’ve started to think about the possibility of going back to grad school. Oh, and you’re also trying to get in shape (on account of all the bridesmaid’s dresses you’re being asked to wear lately).


FOTP BBQ at Good Company. Photo credit: Kelly Neal for Metromix New York.
… Let me back up for a moment:
Last week, I had the pleasure of interviewing Kristina, the girl behind The Downtown Diaries, a blog about nightlife here in New York City (or “The Scene,” as Kristina begrudgingly calls it). We chose to meet at Good Company in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, where Finger on The Pulse was hosting their final BBQ of the summer season, with Andrew W.K. DJ-ing and $5 plates of deliciousness courtesy of Frankies Spuntino.
I arrive at 7:30 on the dot, belly up to the bar, and order a sweet tea vodka with lemonade (which, happily, is served in a Mason jar). A short while later, a pretty girl with dark hair and smoky eyes sidles up next to me: “Are you Esther?” she asks. It’s Kristina!
I buy her a drink. She orders a sweet tea vodka, too, and I like her immediately. Every few minutes someone new comes up to us to say hello to Kristina. They’re young, attractive, hip, creative: writers, photographers, DJs, bon vivants, musicians and artists. Kristina is a natural hostess and her networking skills are evident right away. She’s pleasant with everyone and careful to make thoughtful introductions. She talks with a friend about meeting up on the Lower East Side later in the evening (“At Pianos?”… “I’ll text you.”), then we make our way out to the courtyard to get some grub. Read the rest of this entry »